Most of the time I think that I can't be such a bad person by nature, because the way I feel so angry and resentment and insecure about having ASD some people with my emotional issues would bully others to make one feel better about oneself (not talking about other autistics, just people in general).
But I've never bullied anyone in my life, and even if I accidentally came across as bullying (online) I've never got joy out of it, quite the opposite actually; I beat myself up and feel guilty instead and crave reassurance from others for self-assurance.
Some would call it attention-seeking, but maybe it is in a way but not in a manipulative or malicious way, it's just that I need an ego boost every now and then, like we all do. I like to offer kindness and reassurance to others when I can, because sometimes it can really make their day. We're all entitled to post whatever we like here if it's within the rules, so I think that whoever criticises others for "complaining" should be reported. This is a support forum after all. People should feel lucky I don't go around bullying and belittling people for an ego boost, instead I just beat myself up and need some emotional support.
But despite all that, I still get on the receiving end of malicious name-calling and accusations of being a bully, and it really doesn't help my already crumbling self-esteem when people turn hostile over some principle and turn OTHERS against me too.
Can anyone relate? Do you know what I mean? Why are stranger's opinions of me online so real to me?
But I've never bullied anyone in my life, and even if I accidentally came across as bullying (online) I've never got joy out of it, quite the opposite actually; I beat myself up and feel guilty instead and crave reassurance from others for self-assurance.
Some would call it attention-seeking, but maybe it is in a way but not in a manipulative or malicious way, it's just that I need an ego boost every now and then, like we all do. I like to offer kindness and reassurance to others when I can, because sometimes it can really make their day. We're all entitled to post whatever we like here if it's within the rules, so I think that whoever criticises others for "complaining" should be reported. This is a support forum after all. People should feel lucky I don't go around bullying and belittling people for an ego boost, instead I just beat myself up and need some emotional support.
But despite all that, I still get on the receiving end of malicious name-calling and accusations of being a bully, and it really doesn't help my already crumbling self-esteem when people turn hostile over some principle and turn OTHERS against me too.
Can anyone relate? Do you know what I mean? Why are stranger's opinions of me online so real to me?
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